Lenore Rivera: The Difficult Decision to Bring Mom to Colorado


Part four

Almost two years ago, I received a call informing me that my mother was found several blocks away from Braswell’s.

It was at this point that I had to make another very sad decision to have her placed in a lock- down facility. The good thing was that it was another one of Braswell’s homes. However, I had learned that moving a patient with Alzheimer’s disease could be very traumatic for them. I felt that if my mom was going to end up very confused, I may as well move her here with me, which is now in Colorado.

It was, once again, a very dark time for me. I had to explain to my mom that she was coming back to Colorado to live with me. She was thrilled, but I knew she didn’t have a clue why this move was happening.

While driving back to Colorado, I discovered something I had not known of before. About 4:30 p.m., as the sun was going down, my mother was going through what is called the “sun-downing” period.

She suddenly didn’t know who I was or where she was going. She kept telling me she wanted to talk to her daughter Lenny, which is me.

The fear in her face was one I will never forget. She sat in the passenger’s seat with tears rolling down her face, praying to her God. I later learned those with sundown syndrome experience this nightly exactly at sundown. Needless to say, this was a whole new experience for me.

Every night at the same time, she would go into another world of complete confusion. She needed to go and pick up her father; she needed to see her Lenny. Then she’d begin crying for hours. She wouldn’t recognize me at all during that period of time.

Nothing I said would give her comfort. NOTHING!

 

Lenore RiveraLenore Rivera, guest blogger

 

 

 

 

This blog is for informational purposes only, and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your health or medical needs.

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